Words have a history, and so has “babywearing”. As per Webster’s dictionary, we used this word for the first time in the year 1989. It is the practice of carrying babies, or small children in a sling, or another form of carrier. Practically any parent, usually mothers can wear their babies, keeping both hands free for any other task. This old practice or tradition, just got a new name. Postal history is replete with babywearing postage stamps, much before we coined this word.
Various traditional contraptions are used for babywearing. In Subsaharan Africa, a popular garment that is used for the purpose is Kanga. This is a rectangular woven fabric, and comes in various designs. On the other hand, East Asia and China has Meh dai, also known as Mei tai, which has a sling for the shoulder and waist. Onbuhimo is a variation from Japan, and Podaegi from Korea.
Babywearing in postage stamps from Africa
Postage stamps from Africa, have most babywearing images. In each of these images, central figure in these stamps is mother, who is well poised and confident.
Around 1990s, this tradition became a modern fad. Parenthood philosophies and concept of “attachment-parenting” became popular. Better skin-to-skin contact or a close body contact between mother and her child, improves growth and wellbeing. We had just rediscovered this ancient concept, already popular in many cultures across the world. Close contact between mother and her child, improves bonding, and reduces infantile anxiety.
Further, we also found more biological advantages of such a close contact. Babywearing is almost a norm in many non-western societies. Presumably, this also improves oxytocin secretion in mothers, and hence a better nurturing mood.
Infants are also become more attentive, as they can now explore the world from an adult’s eye-level. Mothers also become more responsive to need of their children.
Babywearing postage stamps from Asia
Babywearing types: Back-wearing vs Front-wearing
While, western societies still continue to debate between front-carrying and back-carrying, many societies had probably made up their mind a long ago. In most cultures, mothers were back-wearing their babies. This was probably convenient. Western societies were worried, if this could lead babies to get asphyxiated.
Benefits of front-wearing were first brought forth in 1970s. Two doctors in Columbia, Edgar Rey and Hector Martinez were looking for better care models for premature born babies. In a village a wet-nurse explained how she bundled newborns up against her chest, and this supported the babies’ health and growth. Thus, was born concept of Kangaroo care, with babies held up against mother’s chest. This care type led to propagation of benefits of front-wearing of small babies.
Front-wearers suggest that this technique maintains a better eye-contact with the babies, something that back-wearing does not. They suggest that this is a better position for breastfeeding, babies are in-view at all times, and close enough to the mother for security. So unlike traditional back-carriage images, internet is full of more front-wearing images. In the last decade, we have seen many babywearing products. Jury is still out to decide on their safety.
Baby carrying also has new names
Carrying babies is also as ancient as mankind. However newer parenting websites have newer names for them. The following gallery has popular baby carrying positions, and their names. Please note that most cradling positions have a preference to left.
Cradle hold
Hip hold
Shoulder hold
Shoulder hold is another posture, where the head of the child is supported on mother’s shoulder.
Face-to-face hold
There is no singular style mothers or parents use during upbringing. Many of these positions or postures during care are a natural choices. Yet, in today’s world of parental coaching – each one has a name, and also seems to mark a personality trait !!! There are some real and some perceived benefits of one posture above the other. However, far from reality, this may just be a perfect case of an old wine in a new bottle !!
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